TWO MONTHS LATER - Deal with the solitude -

By Anonymous -

It's April and I have been living here for more than two months. Three weeks ago I finally changed my accommodation. Now I feel that I have a safe space where to refuge after my daily work and where I can easily communicate with my landlady because She speaks English. The location of my new house is good because it is near to the office, to the bazaar, to the local pub, to the library and to my friends' houses.

Day by day, I realize that living in a country whose culture is so far from mine is hard. I also think that it is not easy because I am no longer so young (I am 33 years old). What I find most difficult in general is to deal with other cultures without judging them.

Even if Zugdidi is a small city, here I have the opportunity to meet different people and this is what I most appreciate about experiences abroad. In Italy I live in a small city where I find it difficult to meet new people. Here instead, it is paradoxically easier to approach the few expats, probably because we both have the same need to communicate and share (as I said in the previous post, it's not easy to find English speakers, that is why sometimes I feel lonely).

One of my goals at Merkuri is to understand how to attract young people and how to involve them in the activities that I am implementing for them at the office. I don't find my job easy and I am feeling that the effort I put in does not lead to the desired results. As I explained, in the previous post, I like to plan and keep things under control, that is why for me it is hard to take things lightly.

At this moment I want to focus on what I can learn from this life experience. I realized that my mood and well-being too often depend on other people's actions and behaviors which I cannot control or predict. That is why I would like to learn how to accept other people's differences and be able to spend more time in solitude to better define my boundaries and needs.




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